Over the next several months, I will be blogging about how to write. Sounds pretty basic, doesn’t it? Sounds like a thousand other blogs out there. Perhaps.
Except, I will give you my experience, and more importantly, the lessons I’ve learned from writers so much better than I during my career as published author. I’m not posting a schedule for the blog, because I’ll post when the material is right, but at least once a week. We’ll have other posts on other topics including Jen Talty blogging about The Writer’s Guide to Publishing Options. But if you want to learn how to write a better book and hone your craft this is the blog for you. Check out my bio for my experience and point of view, ask others about my workshops, and, most importantly, read the posts and see if they resonate with you. Let’s Write It Forward together on a creative journey in 2011.
Preface: Write It Forward: The Writer’s Toolkit
If you talk to those who work in hospices, they’ll tell you what lessons their dying patients bestow upon them. One word keeps coming up again and again: regret.
When faced with death, people look back over their lives. All the missed opportunities, the misplaced priorities, the things that weren’t done. Only a handful of people focus on what they did do and are content. These people have negotiated the five emotional steps of change, which are Elizabeth Kubler-Ross’s stages of Death & Dying. The last stage is acceptance. Kubler-Ross found that only 5% of those who were told they had a terminal illness were able to negotiate those five stages.
That number strikes a cord. Because in my Warrior Writer book, I refer to the 5% rule for internally motivated change. I’ve taught writing for decades and have always been shocked at how few writers actually changed anything in their writing. I am no longer shocked. I have acceptance that I cannot change anyone but me. I can assist others if they desire it. This is based on my experiences and, more importantly, what I’ve learned from other writers, books, shows, and life.
78% of Americans believe they can write a book. I’d be willing to bet 77% of them will die regretting they never did. It’s not about getting published. It’s about creating and acting instead of reacting, often, too late.
You have only one thing stopping you from writing the best book you are capable of. You.
This is a Toolkit because no tool is wrong. If I need to fasten two pieces of wood together and instead of picking up a hammer and nail, but rather pick up a saw, it is not the tool’s fault. It is mine.
I am going to lay out numerous writing tools on these pages that will help you develop your craft as a writer. However, becoming an artist is up to you.
Point of view is the most critical style element in writing. It is also important in following the way I teach writing. I’ve been making a living writing for well over two decades and with each year and every new manuscript come new lessons learned. Over that time period I’ve taught writing novels and getting published at various workshops and for numerous organizations. I’ve attended many workshops and listened to other authors present. I’ve read many books and watched many movies and shows, constantly analyzing the writing, to learn new ways of creating. I’ve seen numerous ideas, stories and manuscripts in the course of teaching, helping other writers, and judging contests. I’ve been published by six different American publishers, many foreign publishers, worked with over a two-dozen editors, and have had four primary agents. I’ve been traditionally published by the Big Six in New York, and non-traditionally published through my own imprint. I’ve had hardcover, trade paperback, mass-market paperback, print on demand, and eBooks across the range of possible platforms published.
The words that follow are my experiences and opinions. They were born out of my desire to give those I taught something solid when they attended a seminar or class or bought a book.
Too many people lament the state of publishing and the “crap” that fills the shelves in the local bookstore. My goal in this book is not to complain but to explain; to tell you about the craft and art of writing so you can accomplish your goals.
The world of writing is a very diverse one and there is a place in it for just about everything and everyone. Things are changing rapidly, faster than ever, and I think it’s an exciting time to be an author, with more opportunities than ever before.
The bottom line is I write because I enjoy it. That doesn’t mean it’s easy. The one commonality I have seen in every successful writer I’ve met is that they work very, very hard. There is a large degree of craftsmanship required to write a novel. It’s not magic; it’s hard work combined with the ability to constantly accept being critiqued and to critique one’s self.
There’s an advantage to the information in this book. It was written over the course of my writing career so you are going to get information written when I was tightly focused on craft, and you are also going to get information when I was tightly focused on the art of writing. Most writing books give you one or the other–here you get the whole deal. I’ve probably learned more about the craft of writing in this past year, my 20th as a published author, than in all the years previous, because I’ve been more open to learning than ever before.
Additionally, in the last several years, I’ve focused on what it takes to be a successful author, not just in terms of the writing, but in terms of not only surviving, but thriving in the world of publishing. Most of that is in my Warrior Writer program and book, but I will cover some of that here when it’s needed.
The bottom line is the book. I love books. I love reading them and I love writing them. So if you love books, the words that follow are a glimpse behind the mysterious curtain of how they are born in the crucible of passion and idea, then written, and published.
I will take you step by step on the journey from original idea to the completed manuscript.
“I am always doing that which I cannot do in order to learn how to do it.” Pablo Picasso.
Anything that upsets you, makes you feel bad, makes you angry, touches any emotional button is something you must focus on. We get upset whenever we heard or read something that affects us. Because we are hearing a truth, we react defensively with emotion. Our strongest defenses are built around our greatest weaknesses.
“I’m convinced fear is at the root of most bad writing.” Stephen King
Often it is fear that keeps us from achieving our goals. It is fear that keeps us from writing. It is fear that stops us from living our inner dream. But fear is the seed of regret.
So. If you want to write, remember: No regrets.
Live your inner dream.
Write It Forward!














Love. This. Post.
The truth is that writing *IS* agonizing work. It’s painful to bring forth something that’s worth sharing with the world.
But the other truth is that I can’t find it in myself to do anything else.
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Love this post, of course, just like I love your workshop, and online course.
Speaking of your online courses, after reading this post I decided that I wanted to sign up for January’s installment. But I couldn’t find the link on this page. Yes, I know where to find it b/c I’ve signed up before, but wouldn’t it be great if all the folks who read this blog could sign up for more fab content, with just a click?
I’m just sayin’…
Good stuff here Bob, and I look forward to more. Three quotes from Michelangelo seem very appropriate for the blog and they are all so true.
Regret -> “There is no greater harm than that of time wasted.”
Fear -> “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. ”
Hard Work -> “If people knew how hard I worked to get my mastery, it wouldn’t seem so wonderful at all. ”
Keep it coming Bob.
The Toolkit was the first writing book I read that struck deep cords. At they time they didn’t seem like earth shattering light bulb moments, but as the concepts started to sink in, they changed the way I write on a daily basis. I still have my original copy sitting on my desk, sort of falling a part because I do refer back to it regularly. I feel like there is so much left for me to learn about writing and myself as a writer.
Danielle–since I get to play techno geek here sometimes, we added a link on the sidebar to the Write It Forward workshops and schedule. Hope that helps.
Great post. While I wait for the next installment, I shall push it to my writing friends and organizations.
On the strength of Jen’s comments, I’ve just ordered The Writer’s Toolkit.
I’m struggling with the ‘keeping on writing to the finish’ aspects – I don’t mind working hard, but I haven’t cracked the motivation side of things and it sounds like there could be some promising ideas in Bob’s book to help me find my way to writing ‘The End’!
Echoing Kerry, keep it coming, Bob. Good stuff!
Bob,
I am a published author, but I feel there is so much more I could learn about writing. You’re course looks very interesting.
My favorite thing about the internet– often, you can find exactly the advice you need at exactly the moment you need it from someone that you’ve never met. Thanks.
January seems to be a month of renewal. I’m reworking a lot of things regarding writing and publishing. 2010 was a big year of change and 2011 will bring even more.
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